Our America

Tomorrow night, my dear friend and colleague, Ms. Nina Payne and our company Domi Dollz will be featured in the season premier of “Our America” on the OWN network.  This episode is all about kink and alternative lifestyles. Normally we are very wary about getting involved with media when it comes to the community since everyone always puts such a negative spin on it but I have to say that I actually respect this show in general for not sensationalizing it’s coverage of topics and the host, Lisa Ling, as a journalist.

We spent a lot of time with the producers before filming had begin.  Since BDSM is such a large complicated topic, they had a lot of questions for us and as you may know we are all about sharing and educating in a positive manner. The producers were really great and put as much work in as possible in order to better understand what BDSM is really all about. They even attended one of our Domi Dollz workshops and hung out with us afterwards.

Here is the preview of the episode.  I have to say that from what I can see it was shot beautifully and I’m excited to see the final product in full.  I’m also happy to announce that Kinky Amour, the first book written by the Domi Dollz, is almost done.  It’s been a lot of hard work and a great challenge but totally worth it!  I’ll be sure to check back with everyone when is is officially released.


Sneak Peek: Watch the First 5 Minutes of the New Season of Our America

Lisa Ling goes beyond the best-selling fantasy novel, Fifty Shades of Grey, to explore the real world of BDSM: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sado-masochism. What she finds is a kinky truth far more complicated than fiction.

Watch the first 5 minutes of the season premiere before its television debut, then, tune in for the premiere of Our America with Lisa Ling on Tuesday, January 22nd at 10/9c, only on OWN.

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Help Support My Passion

So I know I’ve been a bad Mistress and haven’t updated my blog in forever which happens from time to time as you may notice.  Part of the reason that I have neglected it is because I’ve been doing a lot of writing else where. As some of you who follow me may know, I work with a company called Domi Dollz. Domi Dollz is a collective of sex positive and kink friendly individuals who’s goal is to empower, entertain, and educate the public about kink.  We happen to be writing our first book so that is where most of my spare time has been going.

Working with Domi Dollz is very important to me for so many different reasons.   The main reason is that I am very passionate about spreading a positive message about kink. There are so many misconceptions and negative media attention in regard to our community simply because of a lack of understanding. Yes, it can be an intimidating topic to approach for someone who is just starting out. However I firmly believe that the right first introduction makes all the difference and this is why Domi Dollz does what we do.

When I first started really exploring BDSM I didn’t know anyone who was lifestyle or really where to turn.  I found my way into the pro scene not with the intention of being a pro Domme but really just to learn and experience.  It was something that I needed in my life.  BDSM has given me an outlet, an understanding, and an acceptance of my true self that I do not think I could have gotten anywhere else and to be able to share even just a small piece of that possibility with someone else is an amazing feeling.  The feedback that I get from people who attend our events is always so heartwarming and serves as a constant reminder of why I have chosen this path for myself.

I’m sharing all of this with you because we are coming close to finishing the book and need to raise money to help get it out to the public.  If you are able to make a donation or help spread the word that would really mean the world to me and hopefully help me have more free time so I can write more of random blogs for you guys to read! Click on the link below to find out more details.

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